Too much of a good thing!

So last night, while getting ready for the first "big" night of baby making, I realized that "making love" had lost it's luster. You know you can't really get in the mood when you know it is something you have to do. Okay so maybe that is just me but come on, When you are counting and checking and taking your temperature and then it is like okay, we have to do it everyday for the next 7 days..... well that kind of looses its luster for me. haha.

With that being said, maybe I shouldn't but I am going to tell you about my redneck DH. He really is the greatest and we have been through so much in our 14 years of marriage. Much more than most. Now, I will tell you that the first time 15 years ago that I saw him, I melted. It was lust at first sight. He had a psycho girlfriend but I will have to tell you more on that later. lol. Anyway after being manipulated, we went out on our first outing. I will say that there was just something about this man. He was 21 and I was 16. shhhhhh don't tell my mom. No really she found out and about had a cow. Anyway, that night, I snuck out of the window and went to a party at his house. Now I have never been a drinker but he was and that night, he decided not to drink. He said he wanted to remember that night. Boy things got hot and heavy really quick and I wanted to but kept telling him that he was not going to call me in the morning and I didn't want to do something with a guy that I had a crush on for the last 6 months and him not respect me. Well I have to tell you, We did. That first night. Granted I had known him for 6 months and had lusted over him for that time but still, this was the first night of us going out. All of that being said... at 9 the next morning, HE CALLED. lol. I still remember the conversation like it was yesterday. lol. We have never in the 15 years together not seen each other every day since then except maybe 6 nights total. I love that man.

I typed all of that to get back to the original post, I was not feeling really "in the mood" but I knew we had to if we were going to try to get pregnant. I went to get my bath and when I went in, there were candles by the tub and my favorite book. I thought, awwwe that was sweet. Then, after enjoying my wonderful bubble bath that he had run for me, I was floating and ready to go to sleep. BUT, when I walked into the room, there were candles all over and the lights were out with my favorite CD in the background playing. Again, I tell you that this is not my husband. lol. He does not do these things. He is all about the no stroke before the poke if you catch my drift. I know this is personal but I am here to tell you that we have not had a night like that in a while. Granted when we do, it is good but last night it was great. Can someone please tell me where he took a class on this. lol. I am not for sure but if I find out, I will let you know. haha.

For those of you wondering where the 13 year old was in all of this..... well he was next door staying the night with his mi-mi. That was set by the wonderful hubby as well with all of his smooth talking about how his mimi needed company that night and she had cooked his favorite meal... yada, yada, yada. hehe. I am still on cloud 9 as I type this. What a wonderful way to make a baby!! hopefully!! Praise to the Lord above.